Stuff You Didn't Really Think You Cared To Read

Baby Jackson Burgess is here!

2011-05-12T03:30:00.000-05:00

It is with great joy that I am sending this. Lisa, Everett, and I have welcomed our new addition to our family. Jackson David Burgess was born today May 12, at 3:55am. He measured 9 lbs. 2 oz. and is 21 inches long. He and Lisa are doing very well. Everett is excited to teach Jackson a few things about mom and dad.

We are at Stamford Hospital

30 Shelburne Road, Stamford CT, 06904

Love to all,

-James, Lisa, Everett & Jackson!

Wasn't expecting that...

2009-08-19T21:25:00.011-05:00

Here I am driving to work like I do every morning. I've mentioned it before, my 43 mile one way trip down HWY 75.

The only difference this morning is that I was trying to get to work early and traffic was fairly good. I was minding my own business and having a good morning. Listening to the radio and looking forward to seeing if the HOV "Enforcers" had caught any single drivers trying to get a quick ride. Just as I was getting my hopes up to see some violators, my car decided to sputter. Traffic came to a stand still and I stopped "safely". As traffic began to move, I stepped on the gas. My engine roared and my car stood still. I messed with the gear shifter and stepped on the gas again. My car went nowhere. "NOT GOOD!!!". I was now that guy who was stalled on the highway.

I quickly put on my hazard lights and then proceeded to stair in my rear view mirror to see cars flying up on my rear. I decided to try to get my car to the far left lane (next lane over). I was able to push it and steer it over. This lane was the feeder to the HOV lane so not to many cars were in it. However, there were enough to freak me out when they came up on me. After calling my roadside assistance to get a tow truck, one of Plano's finest placed his truck behind me to protect from traffic. The tow truck arrived and I was ready to head to the car dealership to find out what was wrong.After getting to the dealership I was able to find out that the transmission pump was out. Again, NOT GOOD!!! So then came the next bit of excitement. 1) I now needed a new transmission - Honda has a 3 month waiting list, 2) They were having issues finding a rebuilt transmission 3) Once they found one they gave me a quote...$5000!!!!! Luckily, our good friends the Booths have family connections to a repair shop in Frisco. Called Allison's dad's shop and he quoted me well below this price in order to rebuild MY transmission. Who wouldn't take that. So thanks for the diagnosis Honda, it's off to someone who will take care of me and for less $$$. Ok, got this taken care of, now I need to get to work the next two days. Cool, I just need to get a rental car. A lot easier said than done! After calling a few companies and finding they were SOLD OUT or the had 1 car left and wanted premium pricing for them, I was clueless as what I would do. Finally I got a call from Lisa saying that she was able to find a rental car in McKinney for a decent rate! My wife working her magic. Thanks to her and her brilliant work, Hertz was able to get me a car so that I could move on with my day and get to work.So, after trying to get to work an hour early, I actually showed up about 3 1/2 hours late. Why is it that sometimes life gets in the way of life? (ponder that for a moment).

When I woke up this morning I thought that maybe I would spend a couple of bucks on a drink or something. I ended up spending about $200 before 10am. Then hearing that I would be out a few Thousand before the end of the week... GREAT!!!So happy birthday Lisa you are getting a new transmission for my car!! Woo Hoo!!!What stands out most in my mind about this morning is the exchange between myself and the tow truck driver as I was getting out of his truck. He said, "bad way to start the day, a sick baby at home, and a broken down car...I hope it gets better." My response to him, "It could be worse." Let's remember, it could always be worse! Also, let's remember the joy of car ownership!

Enjoy!

Over Qualified.

2009-06-28T21:21:00.005-05:00

Everyone either chooses their career or they have their career chosen for them. Either way it's what they do. Those of you that know me know that I am a General Manager of a "retail store". (I will explain the quotes later.) I was raised with both of my parents being "retail" managers. My first job, besides KFC, was selling suits in a "retail store". While working through high school I realized that "retail" was something that I enjoyed and it was something that I was good at. I spent time learning from those around me and always looked for ways to move up and to better impact the business. On a personal note I was fully able to understand what my dad went through every day when he went to work. It gave me a sense of respect for the hard work that both of my parents had done in order to take care of their family. My dad and I never run out of "retail" topics to talk about. A sort of bond. About 5 years ago I had the opportunity to get out of "retail" and get into wholesale. This was a wonderful opportunity. This allowed me to better understand "retail" and educated me on ways to make "retail" more than JUST "retail". I was able to learn the business, gain an appreciation for product and the process. About a 1 1/2 years ago it was time for me to find something new to do. I did not want to get back into "retail". Been there, done that. However, remembering what I had learned over the previous 4 years I knew that I could make an impact on a retailer. Here's the quote explanation. For those not in "retail", "retail" is when someone opens the doors, clothes are on shelves, pesky sales people are ready to sell (or do nothing) and then they fold clothes and go home. For those in "retail" they know that there is MUCH more to it. Not to say that some retailers don't operate this way or that certain employees don't view their job this way. It's to say that the true industry of RETAIL is much, much more complex. Some retailers higher people based on the "warm body" theory. I have never had the desire to be a part of that. I have always wanted to work retail in which each member of the company is able to make a contribution based on their efforts, brain power, and good 'ole fashion hard work. I give 100% every day I go to work in order to impact the business each day.

I say all of the above to preface an occurrence that happened to me today. One of the sales associates was ringing up a customer who had two friends with him. Kids, meaning they probably had just graduated college. I was doing something on one of the registers and overheard the following conversation.

Girl: "well I mean I could work "retail"'

Guy: "why would you want to do that?"

Girl: "well I mean, if I want to own one, I should probably work in one, right?"

Guy: "I guess."

Girl: "maybe your right, I am extremely over qualified for that"

I had to bite my tongue right there. Are you kidding me? So many things wrong with this conversation. 1) You are standing in a retail store around people who work in the retail store! 2) What makes you over qualified? The fact that you know nothing about retail? 3) I had an earlier interaction with the girl. Based on this interaction I would never hire her. College graduate or not. You see, working in the RETAIL BUSINESS is about more than just being smart. It's about having a personality, being able to be flexible, being strategic, hard working, motivated, etc.

Everybody that works with me in my store is hired based on how they can bring the store to the next level. Not just because they are a body who thinks they can work retail.

Did I take this incident a little personally? Maybe a little. But that is because I take everything I do personally.

2 lessons can be learned from this. 1) Don't think that you are better than someone while you are in their presence - it's rude. 2) Never say you are over qualified for something you know nothing about.

Thanks for reading.

Enjoy!

-James

The Odds Were Against Me

2009-05-06T21:12:00.003-05:00

In the 86 miles (round trip) I drive to work each day, I see a lot of things. One thing I see way to much of is car accidents. In the estimated 25,000 miles I have driven in the last year or so (to and from work), I have been lucky to stay out of them. However, today my 1 in 25,000 odds were against me. It was my turn on a dark, rainy morning in McKinney, Texas. That's right, this morning on my regular commute to work, I locked up my breaks (after the cars in front of me slammed on theirs) and slid on the wet road into a Nissan Pathfinder. Good news...No one was hurt. I was in the car by myself and the lady in front of me was by herself. We were both able to drive our cars off of the freeway and into a parking lot where we were safe. My car took the brunt of the impact and is currently at a collision center. I'm hoping that it can be repaired and we will be reunited once again - my good friend. At the end of the day, it is just a car and the important thing is that everyone is safe (well that and I carry maximum coverage). So tomorrow drive safely, you never know when an orange construction barrel will jump out onto 1 lane of a 2 lane road. This could lead to an accident. So, be on the look out and be careful.

Everett's 1st Easter!

2009-04-12T19:41:00.003-05:00

As a parent I'm learning that holidays hold a whole new meaning. Everett's 2nd holiday was Easter. We celebrated it by giving his mom a card, a gift, and some candy. He also got a new outfit. He doesn't understand anything about anything right now (duh, he's only 6 weeks old), but it got me wondering how I'm going to make each holiday with him special. I want him to understand the true meaning of each one. Church was the highlight of our day today, we got him to service and he had a great nap. I pray that as he gets older he understands that although the candy is good and the bunny is cute, it's Christ's Resurrection that deserves the celebration. This is just one more responsibility I'm realizing that I have. One I greatly accept. I can't wait to balance and explain Christmas. lol. If your wondering if he got to hunt Easter eggs, remember he's only 6 weeks old. Maybe next year (or two). Have a great Easter and enjoy it with your family, I am!

-JB

What they say is true...

2009-03-08T10:40:00.002-05:00

Ok, so what they say is true. When you have a baby expect to be tired. When I used to hear this I was under the impression that the parents NEVER got any sleep. Now that I'm experiencing it I'm realizing that we get sleep, 1 1/2 to 2 hours at a time. Remember that deep sleep that you used to have...GONE! As soon as the deep sleep begins to set in -- Time to wake up!! But hey, I'm not complaining just stating my realization. I've never had a baby before, but in my humble opinion, Everett is a good baby. We are having a great time getting to know each other. I look forward to the day that he responds to what I'm saying to him. We will have a blast. God has blessed us greatly with our little man. Right now he has three hobbies; eat, sleep, poop. More to come later...
Enjoy!
-JB

Slide Show of Da Man!!

2009-03-04T12:59:00.002-06:00

See, I told you I now had something new to blog about! My Son is AWESOME!!!!! Enjoy the slide show.

Everett Andrew Burgess

2009-03-04T05:51:00.002-06:00

Everett is Home and is AMAZING!!!

Life will never be the same and I am A-O-K with that! He is an awesome gift that I have willingly accepted and will never give back.

He's Here!!!!

2009-03-01T12:06:00.000-06:00

Dear Family and Friends,
The moment that Lisa and I have been waiting for has arrived - the birth of our son Everett Andrew Burgess. He was born at 10:52am. He weighs 8lbs 14oz and is 20" long. Born in Allen Presbyterian. Both Lisa and Everett are doing good. We appreciate all of your support and continued prayers as we head into this new chapter of our lives. We cannot be happier. Photos are attached!
-James, Lisa & EVERETT
-JB

You miss me?

2009-02-26T11:41:00.004-06:00

Ok, Ok, I know....I slipped off of the blog writing radar. I've still been reading them. Since my last post I have done nothing but mourn the loss of the Super Bowl. Not really, I got over it pretty quick. Life did not allow me to get to hung up on it. I have no real excuses other than my brain has had no creative blogging thoughts and I've been a bit busy. Work, school, life and oh yeah...a baby coming. One good thing for you readers out there (all two of you) in about 5 days I will have a whole new arsenal of blogging material..."Life as a Father". I know what you are thinking, "Scary!!!". Need not to be. I have not read any books, I have watched a video or two, I attended two classes at the hospital, I went to the pediatrician visit, and made most (not all) of Lisa's dr. appointments and I was once a baby - what is there to know. (before you come at me, I'm being quite sarcastic). Good for all of us is that Lisa has read the books, talked to people, been in delivery rooms, changed a diaper or two (yep, forgot to mention that, Everett's will be my first!!) I will not say I am nervous, but more excited. Excited to take on a responsibility bigger than me. Excited to adjust priorities. Excited to see Lisa as a mother. Excited to share this life with another. I'm excited to go on a father son campout, excited to watch sports together. The list can go on.... I know I will mess up sometimes, I know I will not always have the answers. But one thing I do know is that I will do my very best to be the Father and Husband that my family needs. And excited to give you more blog content to read.

Thanks for allowing me to say things I don't always take the time to express. You will be the first (well, I mean besides my family and close friends) to know when little Everett joins us!

Man, it's good to be back on the blog scene!!

Enjoy!

-JB

Super Bowl Wrap Up.

2009-02-03T20:16:00.004-06:00

Ok, I have waited 2 days before commenting on the Super Bowl. I did not want to post anything out of pure emotion. I was able to watch it with a great group of supportive friends.

Here is my Super Bowl wrap up. After the 1st half the Cardinals played a great game. They came up one play short (aka: no review), Steelers won. Already looking forward to next season. Go Cardinals!

2 More Days

2009-01-30T14:56:00.001-06:00

Alright Cardinal fans (and you others)...only 2 more days until the Arizona Cardinals play in their first ever Super Bowl. So exciting!! Go to www.espn.com and vote for who you think will win (unless you are a Steelers fan). Currently the Cardinals are leading the votes 53% to 47%. Go Cards!!
-JB

YES WE CAN!!!

2009-01-18T22:48:00.016-06:00

The critics said NO, but YES THEY DID!!! The Arizona Cardinals are on their way to the Super Bowl in Tampa, FL, on FEB. 1st, 2009!!

Today's game was very exciting in the 1st half when the Cardinals were annihilating the Philadelphia Eagles. Then the 2nd half was a bit more challenging. The Eagles came back and had the lead going into the 4th Quarter. Being the Championship caliber team, that the Cardinals are, they stepped up big and pulled out the WIN (32-25)!! They are the 2008 NFC CHAMPIONS!!

One of the biggest STUDS of the game was Larry Fitzgerald. He had 3, count them 3, TD receptions!! No one is better!

Now the mission is to "SHOCK THE WORLD" and WIN THE SUPER BOWL.

Bring on the Steelers!!!!

New Blog

2009-01-18T10:05:00.001-06:00

Check out my new blog. A journal of photos. Enjoy!

www.dailysighting.blogspot.com

-James

Sunday Afternoon Plans...

2009-01-16T22:28:00.004-06:00

If you have any plans on Sunday afternoon other than watching the Cardinals v. Eagles game, CANCEL THEM!!! The Cards need your support as they strive to win the NFC Championship game. Again, cancel all plans and stay tuned!! Go Cards!!

David Crowder...man and his goatee.

2009-01-07T21:22:00.006-06:00

One of my favorite bands, not just Christian, is the David Crowder Band. Every cd they've made is awesome. But nothing beats seeing them perform live. About a year ago Lisa and I saw them at the House of Blues in Dallas.

This was one of the best concerts that I have ever been to. They are not only entertaining, but their music is uplifting and inspirational. For those of you that do not know of these guys...you need to check them out. davidcrowderband.com David Crowder has commited his life to making music and serving God. No matter where the band is performing, David does everything in his power to make it to his home church in Waco, TX, every Sunday in order to lead worship. What a treat for those members.

I say all of this for 2 reasons. 1) If you are looking for some music that will help change your life...check out The David Crowder Band. 2) This upcoming Saturday, I have the chance to see them LIVE once again!! (Doing this I have to give up watching the Cardinals game live, thank goodness for DVR)

I will post a full review of the concert along with photos. Ok, I may just put up a couple photos as I'm not truly a critic.

Enjoy!

-James

New Blog Recommendations...

2009-01-05T11:35:00.002-06:00

As the new year begins, my search for some cool new blogs is on....

Here are the first three finds that I recommend to all of you "Classic American Stylists" or those that just want to check out some new sites. These are full of some great photos, apparel highlights, informational tid-bits, and some Classic American styles. Enjoy the reads, you will be impressed!!

http://theselvedgeyard.wordpress.com/

http://blackwatchbattalion.blogspot.com/

http://42ndblackwatch1881.wordpress.com/

-James

Cards WIN!!!

2009-01-05T01:44:00.004-06:00

The Cardinals finished the regular season at 9-7. They clinched the NFC West Division Championship putting them into the playoffs. Then, last night they won their first round playoff game against the Atlanta Falcons. Well done! This is a step in the right direction. This week they have two challenges: 1) They need to get some respect from the national media...the Cards played a hard game and won. Give them some props. 2) They need to forget about their win and move on to getting ready for their game on Saturday against the Carolina Panthers.

This is a game they can win, I hope they believe this. So go ahead and cancel everything you are doing on Saturday and cheer on the "Future Superbowl Champions" (to early? ok) Arizona Cardinals!!

Enjoy!

-James

2008 Top 10

2008-12-31T17:56:00.003-06:00

Here is my Top 10 list for the year 2008:

10. Only gained a couple .lbs. (trying to lose them).
9. Developed the likeness for the the Bow Tie
8. Started and have kept up with (sort of) a Blog.
7. Started a new job. (if I hadn't I may be out of one now)
6. Got to see the Arizona Cardinals clinch a Playoff birth!!
5. Discovered the beauty of Lake Tahoe
4. Finally made the call to hook up HD/DVR (unfortunately, we will not get to enjoy this until 2009. But I MADE THE CALL).
3. Stayed healthy.
2. Celebrated my 8th Wedding Anniversary.
1. Knocked up my wife. We are having a BABY!!!

Ok, so maybe this list isn't complete and maybe it's not truly my top 10. But I am still going to be a dad. Just wait for the 2009 Top 10 list. I'm sure there will be many interesting items listed. You will have to wait 365 days to find out!

HAPPY NEW YEAR. MAY YOU HAVE A BLESSED 2009!

-James

A Sad Day, Yet A Proud Accomplishment

2008-12-29T22:12:00.005-06:00

As most of you know I spend a fair amount of time in my car. We have developed a sort of bond. I spend more time in my car than one person should. I do have a respect for my car. Lisa and I were blessed enough to pay it off under the term limit and I now have a true sense of ownership. What an accomplishment, I now own a depreciated vehicle. (I truly do like it and am proud to own it). Today I hit another milestone of accomplishment. When I left the house this morning I had a lot of miles put on the car but nothing worth blogging about. On my way home from work all of that changed. As I passed Honda Cars of McKinney (where we purchased the car) I saw this on my odometer.

As things go in the world, one mile later I saw this.That's right...I have now put over 100,000 miles on my '04 Honda Accord. Thank goodness it's a Honda. I have another 100,000 miles to go and plus some. At this point I can proudly say that this is the best vehicle I have purchased to date (I've only purchased 5).

So this is nothing life changing, but it is something that I have known was inevitable. My baby is growing up! tear...

Enjoy!
-James

'Tis the Season.

2008-12-19T22:47:00.012-06:00

OK, so with only 5 shopping days left until Christmas, I feel it is time to share my thoughts on the "Christmas Consumer". 1 word...CRAZY! This person is a different breed. With time running out there is a sense of desperation in the air. This year is a bit more desperate. With less money to go around retailers have slashed prices and slashed again. Each item that a customer buys is needing to be special in it's own right. In the past people have wrapped 2 and 3 things in one package, this year they are wrapped separately. There is still a feeling of joy in the air but unfortunately the desperation turns into anger, rudeness, then craziness. The idea of joy is almost forgotten. So, I encourage you when shopping...be patient, smile, and remember that the people working in stores are there to help you but they want to be joyous as well. So be nice!! Now, stop reading this and go shopping. You are running out of time.

Photo

2008-12-16T19:21:00.003-06:00

I was tagged by Lisa. I tag nobody because everyone else has done this.The object of the picture tag is to:

1) Choose the 4th folder where you store your pictures on your computer

2) Select the 4th picture in the folder

3) Explain the picture

4) Tag 4 people to do the sameNO CHEATING! (cropping, editing, etc!)

This photo is one of my all famous self portraits. I mean come on...you all do it. Just to let you know, the 3rd and 5th picture are self portraits as well. Not really!

Playoffs Baby!!!

2008-12-11T14:05:00.003-06:00

Ok, so I know that there are a few weeks left in the NFL season. However, as a Cardinals fan, I get to celebrate a bit early. Can you say NFC WEST CHAMPIONS?? try it....it feels so good. Yes I know that the first two words are 'NFC WEST' aka: weak division. But Champions none the less. What does this mean? Well... 4 things.

1) The Cardinals will host their 1st ever playoff game since they have been in AZ.
2) Cardinals fans are in new territory...we can actually root for our team in the playoffs.
3) Kurt Warner could win his 3rd MVP award
4) The Cardinals just gained an entirely new fan base (all of the Cowboys Fans who don't want any of the other teams to win, assuming the boys don't make it...i know big assumption).

3 more regular season games and then it is on to the Playoffs!!!!
Please excuse my early excitement. I now know what it feels like to cheer for a football team that will play at least 1 more game. Even better news...I will get to watch it in HD (assuming it will be on in Dallas), that's right I finally made the call...HD/DVR in the Burgess house!!! (I'm finally getting into this new millennium stuff).

Please do us all a favor. If your team is not making the playoffs...cheer for the Red Bird!!
-James

Help the World

2008-12-05T13:44:00.000-06:00

I've been meaning to blog about this for a little while and finally have the opportunity. Lately I have been compelled to think more charitable. I am living a blessed life and do not go without, partly because of the country I was born into. While working the other day, a lady was sharing her feelings to me on the topic of charities and donations. She told me how she cannot understand why everyone chooses to donate to countries other than the United States. She doesn't understand sending food or clothing to Africa, Ethiopia, Argentine (may not be the specific countries she is talking about you get the point), when there are children and families in America who need food, clothing, $$. I see her point and understand that this is a need "at home". But I also feel that in America we have the means and organizations set up to help these people; churches, Red Cross, Salvation Army, Goodwill, private citizens, etc. These third world countries do not have this structure of organizations, nor do most of them have the means. I know we can help our fellow Americans, but why can't we help those overseas as well. In America to buy a meal for someone it may cost $5-$8. For $10 one can feed 25 people a meal in the above mentioned countries. I'm not saying don't help people "at home" but by all means why can't we think GLOBAL? There are so many organizations where we can spend $30 a month and support a child's nutrition, clothing, and education (things that we take for granted every day). I understand that in this economic climate, $30 may sound like a lot, but think of what you would have to give up versus what they will gain. Example: a dinner at Chili's every month, could feed and educate a child. Doesn't seem like that high of a price. So what if you have to eat a grilled cheese that you had to cook off of your electric stove that you have the smarts to work, in your warm house? (did I go to far?). Anyways, I had to bite my tongue when she was talking to me, so now you get to read what I wanted to say. Also, this time of year, take a look around to see what you can do to help people here or overseas. Thanks for allowing me to get this off of my heart.
-James
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Don't mess with Rudolph

2008-12-02T20:57:00.001-06:00

As mentioned before, Lisa and I had the opportunity to go to the ICE exibit at the Gaylord. We also just got a new video camera, you know, for the big day! So I figured what better time to learn to use the camera then at our fun outing. So I was filming some stuff around the resort and caught this. Funny thing is that I did not realize what happened until after I got home and watched the video. I hope you find this as amusing as I did. Didn't anyone ever tell this kid not to pet reindeers while they are eating? Enjoy!
-James

Rugby Holiday 2008 Collection

2008-11-29T20:31:00.001-06:00

Hello avid Rugby video watchers. This is the newest video of Holiday for your viewing pleasure. Enjoy it!!
-James

Thanksgiving!!

2008-11-27T22:59:00.001-06:00

Lisa and I enjoyed a wonderful Thanksgiving. We slept in, ate breakfast, talked to family, set up the tree, and cooked lunch (ok, so Lisa cooked lunch). Then we ate lunch and what a lunch it was, YUMMY!! After lunch we hung out for a bit then it was off to the Gaylord Texan for their ICE exibit...what a blast! We had some dessert and then some hot chocolate. At the ICE exibit I had the chance to slide down the ice slide, who says I'm to old? Check out the video. After this, we went home and decorated our tree and watched a few Christmas movies. We realized this is the last time we will do all of this without a little one. We had a great day spending time with one another! The only thing that would have made this day better would have been if the Cardinals hadn't gotten spanked!! But I'm not going to let that ruin my fun day! Hope you all had just as much fun. On to Christmas!!
-James

Christmas Survey

2008-11-26T13:45:00.003-06:00

With Thanksgiving tomorrow I decided to post my Christmas survey today!

1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? wrapping paper
2. Real tree or Artificial? artificial
3. When do you put up the tree? Usually Thanksgiving night
4. When do you take the tree down? If I had it my way...NEVER. But Lisa takes it down as soon as she can.
5. Do you like eggnog? No
6. Favorite gift received as a child? to many, I was (am) blessed.
7. Hardest person to buy for? Lisa

8. Easiest person to buy for? Me

9. Do you have a nativity scene? Yes, do we put it out, well that depends on Lisa.

10. Mail or email Christmas cards? mail to close friends and family, e-mail to those you just want to say hi to.
11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Yeah, like I would admit that.
12. Favorite Christmas Movie? I like a lot. But lately it's ELF.

13. When do you start shopping? I shop all year. Christmas shopping, now that is again up to Lisa.
14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? not that I can remember.
15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Chocolate covered cherries

16.Lights on the tree? of course!
17. Favorite Christmas song? The First Noel, Little Drummer Boy, Oh I have to pick just one...Not a chance

18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Retail....need I say more?
19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer's? Yes
20. Angel on the tree top or a star? Star
21. Open the presents
Christmas Eve or morning? One on Christmas eve and the rest in the morning.

22. Most annoying thing about this time of the year? Rude people
23. Favorite ornament theme or color? Nostalgic, I love some memories

24. Favorite for Christmas dinner? Sweet potatoes, green bean casserole, Pecan Pie
25. What do you want for Christmas this year? My son to come out. I know it will be late though.

Have a good Thanksgiving!!

-James

Bring on the Holidays!!! I'm ready.

2008-11-21T17:25:00.003-06:00

So the Holidays are upon us. Whether you like it or not. Next week is Thanksgiving and soon after that Santa will be coming down the chimney. With retail being my industry of choice I know what I am doing, working!!! I will be working so that all of the other consumers can buy more for themselves and gifts for others. This year, probably more than any other of recent history, I am glad I will be working. There are so many out there without a job that I am truly thankful I have one. Retail has been hit hard lately with stores closing and layoffs. If you are working this Holidas season, be thankful. Yes, we will miss out on some of those family fun moments and those parties, but make the best of it. (i'm writing all of this for me so that in late December when I'm down, you all can remind me to be thankful). Lisa and I are kicking our season off on Sunday with our Small Group at Church. We will be sharing in a Thankgiving dinner and fun with them. Then on Thanksgiving we will be eating lunch at home together and then enjoying a fun night out at the Gaylord Texan's Ice Exhibit (http://www.gaylordhotels.com/gaylord-texan/lp/promotion/lonestar-christmas.html?source=gppc-ice=gaylord%20ice%20exhibit). With working both the day before and after it is hard to go anywhere. We think that we have come up with a pretty good plan of celebration. Then it will be on to Christmas!! So what are your plans??

TOMS Project Holiday

2008-11-21T17:23:00.001-06:00

Hey guys. So a few days ago I told you about a 'cause product' that I am incredibly intrigued by, TOMS. Well they have started a Holiday initiative where they want to donate 30,000 pair of shoes to Ethiopia. To do this, they need to sell 30,000 pair of shoes. This fits their one for one model. So if you are looking for a unique gift (as unique as 29,999 other people) give a pair of TOMS shoes. Check out their video.

Good Cause Product

2008-11-15T21:54:00.006-06:00

Some say the economy is in a tough climate. That being said, how are you spending your money? What are you buying? Is what your buying doing anyone any good? Those of you that know me know that I love stores, I love clothes, I love people, and I love things that are good. There is a brand out that has been around since 2006 called TOMS Shoes, stands for Shoes for Tomorrow, (http://www.tomsshoes.com/). This is a brand of shoes that is known as a 'cause' product. For every pair of TOMS shoes sold, one pair is donated to someone in a less fortunate country. (according to their website Argentina and South Africa). Pretty cool right? Well, I was introduced to this brand about a year ago. I have liked the idea of designers doing good for the good of man. However, I have just thought, "that's a cool idea, I hope I can sell some". Well today my view of TOMS changed, I love the idea even more. Why did it change? You may ask, well I met the Creator/Designer/"Chief Shoe Giver" Blake Mycoskie. What a cool guy. He seems so genuine and inspiring for a cause. He wanted to do something that mattered. He has partnered with retailers in order to branch out the cause. So yes, I am truly on the TOMS band wagon. Do I have a pair yet? No. Will I get a pair, let's hope so (I want the pair below). Remember it is for a good cause.

Ga$

2008-11-06T20:22:00.000-06:00

I am so excited and can't keep this to myself. I am filling my car up with gas that only cost $1.99 a gallon!!! Who would have thought we would see this day again? When was the last time you got to do this? Ok, I'm done, but I just filled up for $28!!!!
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Voting

2008-10-22T14:18:00.000-05:00

Today Lisa and I cast our votes for this greatly anticipated election. We got in on the early voting in Texas. I have to tell you, more than ever before, I had a great sense of pride walking in to the polling center. Also, I now feel a great weight lifted off of me. I have cast my vote and do not have to think about it any more. This years election may be the most historic of our lifetime. I urge you all to vote on election day, or earlier if you are lucky enough, no lines :). Make your vote count. (Ok, I'm done with my political agenda).
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One of those days...

2008-10-07T22:55:00.002-05:00

So do you ever just have "one of those days"? Today was mine. Started off good enough, I knew it was going to be busy, but good enough. Then for some strange reason it just took an odd turn. My attitude changed, my stress level rose, conflict came up, and my day was a struggle. Now that I'm home tonight I can reflect on the day and plan on how I'm going to face tomorrow. It wont be an easy day, but knowing this I can better prepare. I just have to remember, if it was easy, everyone would be doing it. Pray for me that I can handle my day with the proper attitude and composure that is necessary. Have a good Wednesday!

My Car....

2008-09-30T20:09:00.002-05:00

Ok, a couple of blogs ago I said that if I was given a lot of money (I can't remember, I don't read my blogs) I would buy a Mercedes Mclaren. Today I was looking at one of my favorite blogs Uncrate.com and they announced the new Mclaren out next year. If I get this money soon, I will save it and wait for the new one to come out. It is SWEET!! Top speed 220 MPH. I could get to work in no time! Only 150 will be sold. Want one??

This just in....

2008-09-28T23:30:00.005-05:00

The Cardinals lost! Thanks for the hopes of an above .500 season. (where they now stand at 2-2). This pic is kind of how they played today, on their backs, allowing 56 points to be put up!

On top of the 56 points, they let Brett Favre score '6' TD's. That's right, SIX!!! Can some one say, WAKE UP SECONDARY!!!!!

Anyways, Warner had a good showing, they put up 35. AND STILL LOST!! But he had a solid game (Top passer of the week with 472 yards). Good news, Boldin is doing ok (in reference to the above photo).

NEXT WEEK!!! The 4-0 Bills. GO CARDS!!

I got Tagged and Now you need to read it!!

2008-09-25T22:05:00.004-05:00

Jen B. has tagged me, so.... in a way she has forced me to blog. So here it is... enjoy!

1. Where was I 10 years ago? 10 years ago I was a college freshman at Glendale Community College and an Assistant Manager at the Barneys New York Outlet. Looking for the woman to become my wife.

2. What was on my To Do List today? Wake up, eat, go to work, come home, eat, sit on my behind and watch a movie with my smokin' hot wife.

3. What would I do if I were a billionaire? If I was a billionaire, I believe I would do nothing! Well, I might go buy a Mercedes Mclaren, and a new suit. But then I would do nothing!

4. 5 Places I've Lived

Albuquerque, PHX with my parents, PHX with my smokin' hot wife, in Allen with my smokin' hot wife, in Anna with my smokin' hot wife, and at Rugby.

5. Bad Habits: I do nothing out of habit, everything I do bad is on purpose!

I tag nobody!

Rugby Video from Rugby.com

2008-09-14T00:09:00.001-05:00

I'm not saying that you need to, but you should watch this video. Not only does it have a cool song, but some amazing clothes too. (I guess it has some good looking people too). This has got to be one of the coolest things you have seen on your computer today!!

Gotta Love the Blackberry!

2008-09-12T22:24:00.003-05:00

So while I was looking through blogs tonight, I came across the coolest thing I have seen all day. (Well except the text I got from Mike wanting to go to dinner at Texas Roadhouse). Anyways...although I love my Blackberry Curve, they will be introducing the Blackberry Pear FLIP!!! You get the joy of a blackberry in the space of a Motorola Startac (kickin' it old school). I may never have it, because again, I do love my Curve. But this is pretty cool...

Lake Tahoe Shakespeare Festival

2008-08-21T21:07:00.000-05:00

When Lisa and I got to Tahoe one of the things she wanted to do was to see "A Midsummer Night's Dream" @ the Lake Tahoe Shakespeare Festival. But all of the publications showed that the play ran through Aug. 17th. We got here on Aug. 18th. We missed it. (So we thought). Last night I told you about the couple we met on the boat. They told us how great the experience was and we told them how bummed we were to have missed it. They informed us that the play had been extended to end on the 21st, today. So this morning at 9am, when they opened, I called and ordered us tickets. How perfect...the play Lisa wanted to see, we will see and on her birthday! So we are currently waiting for the show to start. Its a beautiful night on the beach and I'm with my beautiful wife. Who could ask for more? Later I will tell you how the show was.
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Pic of Lisa

2008-08-20T23:16:00.000-05:00

Ok, this picture was meant to be included in the last blog, but I guess I loaded the wrong one. Doesn't she look happy?
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Tahoe, Day 2

2008-08-20T22:43:00.000-05:00

What a great day! We woke up a bit later than yesterday, ate Corn Pops in bed, then hung out watching tv for an hour or so. Once we got around we left the condo knowing that we were going to visit the castle that we saw yesterday. I wanted some coffee and kept telling Lisa that I didn't want Starbucks but I wanted to try one of the local shops that we kept seeing. Well all I could find when I was looking was a Starbucks, I almost gave in until Lisa talked me out of it. We were still searching for a great local shop. We turned onto 89 (the road to the castle) and came across a great little shop called Aspina. We walked in and knew we were in a local's hang out. Everyone in the place was on a laptop, hanging out. There was a cool little patio area surrounded by pine trees, this is where Lisa and I enjoyed our joe (coffee). We had also bought some sandwiches for lunch and had plans to eat them as a picnic. We got to the area where we were to hike from in order to get to the castle. Lisa found a PERFECT place for us to eat lunch. We had a great view and were all by ourselves. Well us and the little bird that Lisa kept feeding chips to. It was pretty cool how close the bird came to us. After lunch we took a 1 mile hike down to the castle. The hike down was great, the air was cool and the conversation was good. We saw the castle, you will not hear much more about it because, well quite frankly there is not much to say about it. Then came time for the hike back up. Ok, right its only 1 mile, but its enough to remind us about how out of shape we are. In our defense it is higher elevation than we are used to and it was hot. After that we were back to the condo to get ready for our evening out on the water. For Lisa's birthday, which is tomorrow, we went out on a dinner cruise around the lake. Dinner included lobster tails, chicken, and fillet mignon. It was a beautiful night and I had the best looking date. Don't tell my wife. We met a couple (twice our age) and had fun visiting with them. Once dinner was over it was off to Starbucks for an evening coffee. Then back to the condo. I've decided that we are the old people in Tahoe. I mean how many other people are in Tahoe and back to their room by 8pm every night. Probably only us. Now its time to chill and watch some Olympics. Who knows I may even read some more of my book. Not quite sure what we have planned for tomorrow, but I'm sure it will be fun. Until tomorrow, take care.
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1st Day in Tahoe

2008-08-19T21:02:00.000-05:00

So when you go on vacation and want to sleep in, a word to the wise, don't go somewhere that is in a time zone 2 hours behind your normal zone. When your internal clock says 7 and your alarm clock says 5...not truly sleeping in. Anyways, once I forced myself to go back to sleep, we woke up an hour or two later. We then went and indulged ourselves at Heidi's with some apple covered waffles and strawberry covered french toast. Very good. Once that was done I got the bright idea to take a drive AROUND Lake Tahoe, it was only 6" on the map. Once an hour had passed and it looked like we were only a short distance around we almost second guessed our decision. But hey, we are on vacation. So we kept on, and good thing we did...it was amazing. We came upon a castle that we wanted to check out, but will have to do that tomorrow because we want to have our "real" camera with us. However, we saw some great scenery otherwise. I have attached some photos we did take of our sight seeing. We got back to Stateline, the town we are staying in, around 11:30. You know what that means... LUNCH. After lunch we walked around a bit until it was time for a nap. Well nap time has lasted about 4 hours now and I think it is getting close to dinner time. Not sure what we are eating, but I'm sure it will be good. So if you know me, I'm not letting you down. We are on vacation and we are eating and resting a lot! Would you expect any less from a Burgess vacation? I hope not. Ok, off to go wake Lisa up, more to come tomorrow...
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Vacation Time!!

2008-08-17T21:50:00.003-05:00

The time has come for Lisa and I to head out of town. We are in need of a vacation. So tomorrow Lisa and I will be heading to Tahoe!! We have never been there but we are sure we will have a good time. We will update you along the way, if I have time of course. So think of us when we are chillin'!

Olympics...it's worth the wait.

2008-08-10T00:05:00.006-05:00

Ok, so another 4 years have past and it is that time...The Olympics. What a great year 2008 will be. It started last night with the opening ceremonies. I got a chance to watch it tonight thanks to our good friends having Tivo (yes, I'm still in like '98 and have no dvr). I have to say, everything I read about the ceremony was true...it was awesome. China has outdone themselves. Ok, so don't laugh but there was an American who has outdone themself also. No, I'm not talking about Phelps, who once again is going for Spitz's record of metals. No, I'm not talking about Lebron James who is trying to redeem his performance on the last Olympic B-ball team. No, I'm not talking about the dynamic duo of May/Walsh. I'm talking about the infamous Ralph Lauren. I mean did you see the "Parade of Nations" aka: The best Polo commercial of the year? Awesome. It's about time that an all-American brand sponsors the American team. Anyone remember ROOTS? Yeah, they are Canadian. Really?? Ok, back to the Pony. Not only is this partnership good for RL (in terms of business) it's good for the US. The athletes came out looking sharp, sophisticated, classic and All-American.

What was the best part about their uniform?.......You guessed it, the white chino "Driving Cap" (not a beret, as every poorly dressed commentator referred to it as...ROOTS that was a beret, get it right). Sorry. Anyways, as you might think, my first thought when I saw them was "I have got to have one". So like a million other patriotic Americans who love style I purchased my very own Driving Cap today.

You may be wondering where you can get one. Here's a clue for you... Polo.com. Point, click, and be stylish. Now, just hope you get it before the Olympics ends. You should have it in time for the closing ceremonies (where the ,once again "Drivng Caps" are optional for the athletes). Ok, I'm done talking about how great the athletes looked. Now it's on to the games!!!! Go Team USA!!

What's the deal?

2008-08-09T08:43:00.000-05:00

So I saw this when I was in NJ a couple weeks ago. I took a picture hoping that someone could tell me what this is all about. I mean I know its a fire hydrant, but why does it have an antenna attached to it? Does it pick up radio stations? Do you know why?
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Bend It Like Beckham

2008-07-28T21:06:00.001-05:00

You may not be a soccer fan but you know who David Beckham is. Last night he was in Dallas with his team that has entirely to much money. But anyways...it was pretty cool to see this phenom in action. It was interesting, every time he would touch the ball he got boo'd but at the same time the place lit up with flash bulbs. Also, he can help pack a soccer game. This was the best soccer game I have been to. Dallas beat LA 4-0. If you get a chance to experience one, do it

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NJ - Garden State

2008-07-20T08:32:00.000-05:00

So my whole life I have wondered why New Jersey was called the Garden State. Now I know why, I've found the Garden, it even has a green house.
(Ok so I haven't actually wondered my whole life)

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PG-13

2008-07-17T08:32:00.001-05:00

Driving to work today I heard an ad for a movie. The closing line said "May not be appropriate for children under 13". It made me think... Why 13? What automatically makes it appropriate for a child to see this movie when they turn 13 opposed to the day before when they were 12? What if the movie really isn't appropriate for a 14 year old but we have a bunch of 13 year olds watching it? Makes one think doesn't it? Ok maybe it makes me think, but when I'm in the car for an hour +... I have the time. Now go out and see a movie that is age appropriate.

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Reilly Luke

2008-07-12T19:35:00.000-05:00

Lisa and I are enjoying the weekend in Houston with our new nephew Reilly and his parents. Rob and Katie have made a cute baby. We have another day to spend with them. Rob heads back to Iraq on Monday, so pray for their family.

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Gotta love the rain

2008-07-08T20:27:00.000-05:00

So right now I am at the FC Dallas game. At 38 minutes the clouds let the rain loose. So now we are waiting for the rain to stop. Its a good time. Gotta love Texas...sunny and 98 degrees during the day and a downpour at night.

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GH Aerosmith

2008-07-04T14:53:00.001-05:00

Okay, its been a almost a week since we got it. I've played approximately 20 songs (don't be disappointed, I've been busy). As much as I like the game and the songs picked. Something is missing. Not all of the songs that you think would make up an AEROSMITH game were selected. A bit of a disappointment in that regards. What song or songs do you think should have been added that are not on the game?

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Funny Picture

2008-07-03T06:25:00.002-05:00

If you want to see one of the funniest pictures that you have seen in a long time...
go to http://mommyof2boysjy.blogspot.com/ and look under the post "Batdog".
You will not be disapointed.
-James

You Know You Want To Tie One

2008-07-02T23:45:00.001-05:00

Alright, those of you that know me know that my new favorite tie is the bow tie. Even as much as my wife loves me in them, (not), I still wear them. I partly love them because not everyone knows how to tie one. No, it's not like tying your shoe, even though that's what you will her. So, I'm sharing this video with you so that you can learn how. Let your inner prepster come out and throw one on today. If you don't have one, I know where you can find one. Enjoy!

Its arrived!

2008-06-29T13:11:00.000-05:00

I am now on my way home with our new best friend! If you don't see us for a while you know where we will be.

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Guitar Hero

2008-06-28T22:34:00.001-05:00

Tomorrow is a great day! Guitar Hero Aerosmith aka GHA, is being released. Guess who pre-ordered it...that's right me. Tonight is the warm up for tomorrow. Plans for tomorrow... church, lunch, GHA! I will tell you how is.

I'm moving up in this technology world

2008-06-27T00:59:00.001-05:00

So thanks to my sister and verizon wireless I am now in the year 2008. I can now blog from my phone. Although it is easier to type on my laptop, this will be fun and maybe even a bit more real time. So thanks for continuing to read my blog. I will try not to dissapoint.
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What did I do?

2008-06-22T23:55:00.003-05:00

Something made me a bit perplexed while driving home from Small Group tonight. Here I am enjoying life, enjoying the music on the radio, and minding my own business. I merged on to 75, where I had a clear path to the lane because a semi-truck switched lanes for me. About 3 minutes after I was on the highway, I looked into my rearview mirror to see an SUV flying up on me flashing it's lights... that's weird... Just as I'm confused they switch lanes and pass me. As they pass me the driver decides to show me his I.Q., with his middle finger. If I was confused before, I'm totally confused now. What did I do?? So to ask him this question I decide to flash my lights a couple times. He did not like that, he got back in front of me and continued to tap his breaks. Now several things are going through my mind like; seriously what did I do?, who is this guy in front of me? and I hope he finds God soon. I gave him his space, because remember, I was enjoying my life and my drive. Mr. I.Q. of one finally exits the highway at 380. As I pass him of course I look over at him and she confirms his I.Q. once again. Dude must have had a bad day... So here's the deal, was I confused or do you think he was confused. I mean how many silver Honda Accords are there, maybe another one gave this guy a hard time and he decided to take it out on me. Anyways, I hope he feels good about himself. I couldn't get a photo of him so I am leaving you with a photo of a guy just like him... we like to call him Mr. I've had a bad day.

Fortune Cookie

2008-06-14T20:50:00.002-05:00

Tonight I stopped and picked up dinner at Pei Wei for Lisa and I. The food was very good. Of course I had to open my fortune cookie as soon as I was done. The cookie was tasty but the fortune left me a bit confused. "Failure is the mother of success". WHAT?? I've heard that failing to prepare is preparing to fail. That makes sense, but failure being the monther of success...now I'm stumped. What does this mean to you?

Where does all of the time go?

2008-06-13T12:13:00.002-05:00

Is it just me or is 2008 flying by? I remember Christmas like it was yesterday. Today is already June 13th. 5 Months gone and the 6th one is almost half over. Where does all of the time go? If we are not careful entire days and even weeks go by before we even notice. When was the last time I blogged? Yesterday right? Nope, even though it feels like it. Is it good for time to fly? I don't think so. Anyways, I just can't get over the fact that the year is almost half over... are you a bit depressed now? Sorry.

Four Square

2008-06-02T21:25:00.002-05:00

Driving to work today I passed by the Y.M.C.A. and noticed something I had completely forgotten about. I saw some little kids bouncing a ball back and forth. It took me two seconds to realize what they were doing. These kids were playing one of my all time favorite playground games...Four Square! http://www.gameskidsplay.net/games/ball_games/foursquare.htm. I loved this game growing up. So what I'm thinking is a 4-square tournament needs to happen soon. Any takers?

Thoughts on a long emotional day.

2008-05-17T02:59:00.002-05:00

Today was my grandma's funeral. The service was great. Very fitting for her. Her love for her family, for God and for the Phx Suns was talked about over and over again. Just as she would have had it. She was remembered very nicely. Another thing that Grandma did in her passing was she brought family members and friends who had not seen each other in many many years, together today. It was so strange to see cousins and 2nd cousins, long time family friends, who I hadn't seen in years. It's weird, I never change but everyone around me sure does. lol. It was crazy to see all of the kids I remember to now be young men and women. Where does the time go? As strange as it sounded every time I said it, it truly was "Great to see everyone" today. Again, Grandma would have wanted us to all be reunited. It is unfortunate, however, that in today's society it often takes funerals or other life impacting events to pull people together. I do wish there was a way that we would not have to "find time" to be with one another but rather "make time" to be together. As I said goodbye to many of them today I left them with "I hope to see you soon". This was the truth, I do hope to see them soon. But I have no idea when. I do hope that it is before the next life impacting event. Even after her passing Grandma is still teaching us lessons and giving us perspective. Our mission is to learn and apply these lessons. Never take your loved one's for granted and always let them know how much you love them. Even when you are thousands of miles away MAKE TIME to remember what is truly important on this earth. Goodnight.

One More Person Rooting Us On.

2008-05-14T19:43:00.007-05:00

As most of you know, my grandma passed away on Saturday. I will be heading to PHX for the funeral, soon. It has been hard to understand how real it is. Being over 1000 miles away, it had not seemed real until today. My sister e-mailed the obituary to me while I was at work.(http://www.legacy.com/azcentral/Obituaries.asp?Page=Lifestory&PersonId=109661871) I opened it up and there it was in black/white. There was no getting around it, it is real. My dad and sister have done a good job taking care of the arrangements so that the rest of the family doesn't have to. I truly have a great family. Back to the realness...I was driving home from work tonight and had my Ipod on shuffle. What song came on but "Holes in the Floor of Heaven" by Colin Ray. If you haven't heard it, the opening verse is very fitting.

"One day shy of (twenty)eight years old,When
grandma passed away.I was a broken
hearted little boy,Blowing out that
birthday cake.How I cried when the sky let
go,With a cold lonesome rain.My
mom smiled, said: "Don't be sad child."Grandma's
watching you today.""'Cos
there's holes in the floor of Heaven,"And her tears
are pouring down."That's
how you know she's watching,"Wishing she could be here
now."An' sometimes if
you're lonely,"Just remember she can see."There's holes in
the floor of
Heaven"And she's watching over you and me."

I then realized how lucky I am. not lucky to have lost my grandma, but the fact that I have all of my grandparents with God in heaven taking care of my family. As I get older I view death differently. As a child I did not understand why people would tell me to be happy because my family member has gone on to a better place. That did not make sense to me. As an adult, I understand a bit more. I still believe that it is more than ok to be sad, for our loss and sad that our loved one is not with us anymore. But I truly believe that once this feeling of anguish has passed our family, we will know and understand the blessing of eternal life in heaven. Wow.... God is truly complex and simple all at the same time. My favorite line from an Aaron Shust song is "I am not skilled to understand what God has willed, what God has planned". This has become a bit of a motto for me this year. It reminds me that we are all part of a much larger plan. Grandma will forever be missed but she is now busy working for the King.

Weekend of Memories

2008-05-12T00:14:00.005-05:00

This weekend was one to remember. Who would have thought that we would be feeling opposite emotions at the same time? It was a weekend that Lisa and I have been looking forward to and one that we wish would never have to come. Lisa graduated from Texas Women's University and unfortunately my grandma was taken from this earth, all in the same day. A complete joyous day and a day of mourning. We know that grandma is now in a better place, one that we strive for everyday. Although we are excited that she is in heaven with God, we are sad she is not here with us. Emotions are great whether happy or sad, they put many things in perspective. It's strange how death can make you remember and enjoy those little things in life. Yesterday we celebrated Lisa's graduation with her commencement ceremony as well as a party to remember. Lisa's hard work was capped off by a little bar-b-que and karaoke with some family and good friends, minus my dad and Jen who went home to Phx to attend to my grandma's arrangements (thank you two so much). After the bar-b-que, we sang until we could not sing anymore, or until everyone left. We had a great time and cannot wait for Lisa to graduate again so we can do it all over. Today we went to the Texas Rangers game, it was a fun day in the sun. However, they did not win, it did not matter because it was all about us spending time with one another. Again, the important things in life. Thank you to all who helped us celebrate Lisa's accomplishments and please keep our family in your prayers this week as it will have it's challenging moments.

Sleep is Over Rated....

2008-05-05T00:27:00.003-05:00

...Or, so I used to think. I remember in the not so distant past when I could stay up until 2am and then be up at 6 to catch a flight then function properly throughout my day. Well, those days are long gone. My body is now on a schedule. This schedule allows me to be up somewhere between 5:45am-6:30am every morning, but then makes it extremely hard for me to stay awake past 10:30pm. As hard as I try, my body is constantly on shutdown mode after that time. This is a problem because in order to get done what I need done, I need to stay up a bit later. Here's the deal, it doesn't matter if I am watching TV, reading, working on the computer or just hanging out, it is a chore to stay awake. Forget putting a movie on after 10, I'm lucky if I make it past the previews. I now have a feeling of what narcoleptic individuals feel like. I could probably be in the middle of a conversation and pass out. Why is this happening and why to me? I'm only 28, too young to be so tired. Or am I? I can tell you that I have never had a dependency on something until recently. I do love some coffee now. As Lisa would say, it's my drug of choice. I am however, making a conscious effort to ONLY drink it when I am in NEED of it, and on Sunday mornings. Last week I only had one cup of coffee, again besides Sunday. Remember, in the mornings I can wake up and function, it's the nights that I am a zombie. So all this being said, Do I feel that sleep is over rated? Not anymore!!! Ok, going to bed now, I have to wake up in a few hours and do it all over again! Until then...sweet dreams.

Random Stuff for Today...

2008-04-30T21:11:00.005-05:00

Ok, so the day started off rough. No not because I had to get up but because I stayed up until midnight watching the Suns CHOKE!! Um...I mean lose. Well, there is always next year (famous words from an AZ sports fan). There is always the Diamonbacks. Anyways... today I had the opportunity to volunteer for a few hours at a food bank. A few people from my company and I worked along side of a team from FedEx Kinkos in order to create food bags for children who are in need of food when they are not at school, such as over the weekend, this was part of National Volunteer Week (http://www.volunteer.gov/gov/). I only helped for three hours but those three hours were very rewarding. It was fun to do good along side of strangers. It makes one realize just how much we take for granted, that a couple juice boxes, granola bars, milk, and fruit cups mean so much to so many people.

After I finish this up, I will be studying for my Biology exam that I will be taking tomorrow. Yeah!!! I mean, not that I enjoy exams but that it is my last Practical Biology exam (if I pass the class). I still have one more lab exam and then it's good-bye Biology! Wish me luck, I need it.

My favorite pic of the day

2008-04-27T21:31:00.002-05:00

This photo is of the Suns Pre-game today vs. the Spurs. Courtesy of http://www.phoenixsuns.com/.

Suns stay alive!

2008-04-27T21:26:00.003-05:00

Today was the day I was waiting for. Not because I didn't have to work, or because it was a day that I got to hang out with friends (although I did enjoy this). Today was the day the Suns remembered who they were and they remembered how to play the game of basketball. They were on point. Everything was in sync and going their way. Bell couldn't miss! It was exciting to see. Now they have to do that three more times in a row to get past the Spurs, who lead the series 3-1. Game 5 is Tuesday back in San Antonio. Cheer on those Suns!! This is their year!

Netflix...What's up??

2008-04-24T21:46:00.003-05:00

So just about the greatest thing was invented a few years ago...movies delivered to my house! That is awesome, I never have to ask what Lisa wants to watch because we just watch what had been delivered that day. Just load movies onto our queue and find them in our mailbox. So easy and reasonably priced. When I first signed up people asked me how our service was, saying that they had experienced poor delivery. For the first few months we used them service was great, I get three movies, I watch them, I mail them back and in about 2 days I have three new movies. Now things have changed a bit. I may get a movie then watch it, mail it back and may get another one, maybe. Not quite sure what is up with them. I guess maybe they feel that they have us locked in and there is no need to make us feel like we are getting our money worth. Well, I would love to say that I think Netflix is as great now as it was when we first signed up...but it's not. If anyone from Netflix is reading this, Can you send me some movies to watch? I actually now have to watch movies that I already own.
Is anyone else having this issue? How is Blockbuster online?

One word to describe being a Suns Fan...

2008-04-22T23:25:00.001-05:00

FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Summer has arrived, bring on the water bill!

2008-04-22T21:09:00.003-05:00

It’s officially summer; we have had 3 consecutive days over 85 degrees. You know what that means…right, put your sweaters away and pull out your shorts. Also it means that I have to mow once a week, again. Not only that but I have to water my yard (with a oscillating sprinkler). Yep, I’m too cheap to install a sprinkler system…although, this is the year! (maybe). Here’s the thing, when we first got our house about 5 years ago, I truly enjoyed mowing and yard work. Now…not so much. I remember growing up in PHX where our yard was, how do I put this…desert. I don’t remember watering and I can count the times I mowed it, on one hand. Anyways, like I was saying…Summer has arrived. If anyone wants to mow my yard, you are more than welcome. Just make sure you bag the clippings.

Suns vs. Spurs...need I say more??

2008-04-19T21:39:00.005-05:00

The 2008 NBA Playoffs officially began today. When round one was set there was one matchup that I did not want to hear. You guessed it, SUNS vs. Spurs. Who wants to play the Spurs in the first round?? Yikes. Anyways, today the Suns got their chance to take a jump on the series by winning game 1. From the get go, it looked really good for them. They were up the entire game until the end of the 4th quarter when the Spurs tied it up to go into overtime. Then in overtime the Suns had a chance to win until the unlikeliest thing happened...the boring Tim Duncan hit his 1st, I repeat 1st 3-pointer of the year, to send the game into double overtime. I was on the edge of my seat. In the 2nd OT, the Suns just could not get it done allowing the Spurs to take a 1-0 lead in the series (117-115). I have my bracket set and I predict that this series will go 7 games with the Suns winning and ultimately brining the NBA National Championship to the Desert!! If you want to read more about this game go to http://www.nba.com/suns/playoffs/recap_rd1gm1_080419.html . It's ok, the Suns have the next game!!! Make sure you watch on Tuesday and root on the Purple and Orange!

PS. The Mavs also lost. (104-92)

What's the capitol of Alaska?

2008-04-15T23:46:00.003-05:00

Tonight Lisa and I watched a movie that I liked. Not sure if was a good movie, but I liked it. This movie makes me think Napoleon Dynamite meets a movie with real subjects. Now before I go too far, I must say that the movie has some (a bit more than necessary (I mean a whole lot)) cursing. So, beware. (I am in no way endorsing this movie, only talking about it). The movie is Juno. If you haven't seen it and want to then I don’t want to ruin it for you...so close this page now, because I'm going forward with this blog. Juno deals with issues such as broken homes, teenage challenges, unexpected pregnancy, adoption, and so much more. I think what I liked was the complete and utter bluntness from the main character, Juno. She has a sense of compassion for people but also an innocent disregard for what anyone thinks of her. I think we may all have met someone like this. For some reason I find this very intriguing. Why? Again this movie tackles some pretty tough subjects and it may not end the way you want it to, but it may in-fact be a reflection of how certain things end up in this world. Warning: Tear jerk alert!!!! w/ a few laughs. Another thing I liked in this movie is the fantastic soundtrack…if you like the folk sound. This movie may not be for everyone, but if you do see it take from it what you like. (With your parents permission of course)

Did you know that Dallas has a professional soccer team?

2008-04-12T23:55:00.004-05:00

So tonight was my first experience watching a live professional soccer game. Ok, to be honest it was only my second time watching a soccer game that involved individuals older than 5. My friend David invited me to see FC Dallas vs. The New York Redbulls (yep, like the energy drink). I am always a little bit weirded out by soccer, how can you play a game that can end in a tie?? Anyways, FC Dallas scored their first goal in the first minute of the game. That was exciting. It is also exciting to see the "die hard" cheer section (I'm sure they have a name) these fans chanted and banged on drums for 90 + straight minutes. Very entertaining. Dallas scored another goal in the second half. Best of all the game did not end in a tie, it ended 2-0 with Dallas taking the win. I wish I could give you more details, but I'm tired. To finish, it was a great experience that I hope to have again. Plus, hanging out with David and Chad (if you don't know Chad, he's that guy that can make watching paint dry, fun) is always a good time.

Thanks guys!

The Lord Shining On American Idol!

2008-04-11T15:36:00.001-05:00

Ok, So I am a little upset that I missed this live. I can't say that I am an American Idol fan because I never really get a chance to watch the show. But with this performance which took place last night, I am a fan today. On Wednesday the American Idol contestants performed this same song (that's right, two nights in a row) but replaced "Jesus" with "Shepard". I'm excited to here them sing the song either way. It is very cool to hear praises being given to God on a universal stage. Check it out and see if it doesn't give you goose bumps!

I FINALLY made GOOGLE!!

2008-04-09T21:38:00.002-05:00

I have had a thought that nowdays one can feel that they have "made it" if they come up on a GOOGLE search. Well, for the past few years, I have GOOGLEd myself periodically, to come up with NOTHING! Why are you judging me?? I know you've done it. :) Well, the other day, I did a GOOGLE Images search of my name and guess what I found on page 9, that's right the photo above!! Have I made it? NO. But it's still pretty cool. What do you find if you GOOGLE yourself? Again, I know you've done it!

What's up with Sunday??

2008-04-06T16:33:00.004-05:00

What is it about Sundays? Every other day of the week I wake up at 6:30am and jump right out of bed. Now, any earlier and I’m in trouble. But on Sundays I cannot seem to wake up before 7:30am. Then, I am tired for the rest of the day. All I want to do after church and lunch is go to sleep. Is this because Sunday is the day of rest?? Probably not. So why is it? Last night I was in bed by 11:00pm, not too bad by my standards. Then I woke up at 6:00am, and felt good. Then went back to sleep. Woke up at 6:30am, felt ok. Then went back to sleep. Woke up at 6:45am, felt ok. Then went back to sleep. Woke up at 7:30am, exhausted and running late. Can you explain this to me?? Or, can you relate? Wish me luck next Sunday, I already have my alarm set! (not really) Have a good rest of your weekend.

Why do cars park on a driveway and drive on a parkway?

2008-04-02T21:33:00.003-05:00

Traffic has become my least favorite pastime, but a necessary one. I spend at least 10-15 hours a week staring out my front windshield. Good times, right? The thing is that I have almost become numb to the morning and evening commute. I know that I have to do it so I just go with the flow. I know that there is a chance I will get home in 45 minutes and I know there is a chance it can take me 2 hours. It all depends on how many accidents I come across on the way. I’m going to confess something, don’t tell my mom (or wife) but sometimes once I get to work or home, I don’t really remember the drive. Not that I wasn’t paying attention, but I am almost on autopilot. I relate this to the way some of us go through life. We keep on the same path and often times are so focused on getting there that we don’t enjoy the ride (I’m working on this). For my birthday I got one of my new favorite toys…an FM modulator for my Ipod. This has enhanced my drive so much; I can listen to my favorite music or my favorite podcasts, allowing me to turn monotony into entertaining monotony. I now look forward to my drive…home that is. So if you take anything away from this, take these three things. 1 – If you have to make a journey at least enjoy ride. 2 – Go get an FM modulator for your Ipod, makes a world of difference. 3 - If you don’t want your wife or mother to find out something, don’t write it in your blog. Oops!

Enjoy your day and drive safely...I’m not a fan of sitting behind accidents.
-James

Thunder Dan is Back!

2008-04-01T19:38:00.004-05:00

Today I was soooooo excited when I opened up my weekly Phoenix Suns e-newsletter to see the headline: "Majerle Added to Roster". You can only imagine how stoked I was. #9 back in a Suns jersey and on the court...could it get any better? (For those of you that didn't know me growing up, Dan Majerle was my favorite basketball player, an average looking white guy that could shoot the 3-pointer!!) Back to the article...I read the intro then clicked the 'read more' link. Yep you guessed it, APRIL FOOLS!. What????? I am all for practical jokes, but that was just plain mean! Oh well, the Suns will just have to win it without him. Anyways, now to the subject at hand...April Fools day. I love jokes, but I hate going throughout a day looking over my shoulder and not trusting anything that is said to me. Thank goodness it only comes once a year and thank goodness that was the worst joke played on me. (next posting, Petition to end April Fools Day, kidding!)

Do you have any good stories from your April Fools Day?

-James

Welcome to My New Blog!!

2008-03-31T00:01:00.000-05:00

Well, the time has come. James now has a blog on Blogspot. It's not that I have been fighting it, it's just I didn't think anyone would care to read it. So it is up to you to prove me wrong. I will be writing about insightful things (as I see them), random things, funny things, serious things, or all things in between. I have already added a posting that I wrote on my old blog, just to give you some insight into my mind. Thanks for taking the time to read this and I hope you find it interesting. You may see that this is stuff you didn't really think that you cared to read, but you love it!

Life is Good

2008-03-30T23:55:00.001-05:00

Written on Jan. 25, 2008.

How are you? I am trying to make this blog thing a bit more of a regular deal. In order to do that I have to write, right? So I will take whatever chance I get. Notice the time stamp. . Right now is an exciting time in my life, exciting and a bit stressful all at the same time. I am currently enrolled in 10 hours of school. For Lisa, that's not a lot compared to her 16 or 18 (I cannot remember) but for me it is a ton since the last time I carried 10 hours was ummmmm about 9 years ago. Also I am currently in a transition time between jobs. This is totally exciting. However, I have a lot of work to do within the next week in order to close down shop where I am. But my mind is already racing on what needs to be done in my new role. So what I'm saying is that even if I wasn't up right now writing an essay, I would be in bed staring at my ceiling with 50 things rolling through my brain. I'll admit I do my best thinking before I go to sleep, but the problem lies in that I enjoy my sleep. I know what you may be thinking, James get some sleep you are not solving world peace. To that I say, correct! But I am trying to make the world a better place one shirt at a time. Or, one pair of pants at a time, one belt at a time, or even a pair of cuff links at a time…which one can I interest you in? Hey, it was worth a shot. But I write all of this to say that even if I am a little stressed out, I am grateful for the opportunity to have that stress. I thank God for providing me with the resources to attend school, the brain to retain knowledge, a job to go to (I mean, come on, who doesn't want the opportunity to go to NYC two weeks in a row on someone else's $$??), a beautiful supportive wife and a bed to lie awake in at night (and eventually fall asleep in). God has blessed us all and even when we feel a bit stressed out, we should look at what we have going for us and realize that maybe our "stress" is actually an abundance of blessings that we need to organize. Really, things cannot be that rough…you have a computer with blogspot.com !!
What stresses has God blessed you with today?